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Make sure they’re actually on board with it. You have a damn good body, so be prepared that your recipient is going to want to show off that photo. This means avoiding text attachments and instead using encrypted programs like Signal or WhatsApp. I would go as far as to say that you shouldn’t send nudes to someone you aren’t already dating or in a relationship with, but sometimes we talk to people online these days for a long time before ever meeting. Sexting can be hot, but there are many other hot activities in which to engage if it’s not your partner’s cup of tea.»Don’t fall prey to manipulation. If it’s because he’s manipulating you by suggesting that you would send him naked photos if you really liked him or that you should want him to look at you instead of other women on the internet, that’s a serious red flag. As most everything goes, sending nudes under the influence is a bad idea. The first is to just make him jump through hoops. Hopefully, you’re smart enough to be dating a grown man, but if you’re talking to someone online, just make sure you know they’re being honest. Too many times, I think we go along with things because we feel as if we have to for guys to like us. It’s not something that can be undone. Anyone who’s under the age of 18 who sends or receives a nude or suggestive image is in violation of the Prosecutorial Remedies and Other Tools to end the Exploitation of Children Today (PROTECT) Act of 2003. This act says it’s «illegal to produce, distribute, receive, or possess with intent to distribute any obscene visual depiction of a minor engaged in sexually explicit conduct,» so you could end up in some pretty hot water if the person you’re sending your nudes to isn’t old enough to receive them. Always ask to make sure he’s okay with you sending images like that before you proceed. You’re bound to forget all the other remaining rules. Be prepared for other people to see your goodies. The right guy won’t pressure you and for the right guy, you probably will want to send sexy messages and pictures. Before you decide to send him nudes, it’s important to think about why you’re doing it. Your photos should be secure against hackers this way, but for protection against screenshotting, you’ll need to use something like Privates. You may be very close to someone you haven’t met in person yet and feel comfortable sharing nudes. It’s easier to do than it sounds. Additionally, make sure you aren’t accidentally uploading to your social media. Even if I don’t necessarily care about getting a d**k pic, I’ll still make him go through the effort to do it for two reasons. Only you can be the judge of whether or not you truly know someone well enough for this kind of intimacy, but please don’t send nudes to brand new guys. Be prepared for this but also be a good person and don’t share the nudes you receive with others without their permission. Don’t send nudes under the influence. Most guys would be thrilled to receive a photo of the woman they’re into half or completely undressed. No one should ever feel stuck or feel guilty for not sending nudes. Triple check that ‘to’ field. You should never be pushed into doing something you’re not 100% on board with doing. It should all come naturally. The second is because I want something on him should he want to hold my nude over my head. Get collateral. I, personally, have sent nudes but I haven’t sent one without receiving one first. Should you listen to my advice about only sending nudes to men you know, though, this rule wouldn’t really matter. There’s even an app called DiscKreet that puts your nudes behind a password that you both have to enter simultaneously in order for them to be viewed. If you decide to send him nudes, you should do so through a more secure messaging program. If it’s because you’re feeling sexy and want to turn him on and build the sexual tension between you, by all means, go for it. Don’t send nudes to men you don’t know. Please, please, please don’t accidentally send your nude photo to your dad or your boss. «If they reply with enthusiasm, you’ve got the green light,» Astroglide’s resident sexologist Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D tells Glamour. Also, make sure they’re over the age of consent. However, it’s still really important to establish consent. Next thing you know, your whole body is in the picture, face and all, and you’ve sent it to your boss and then accidentally uploaded it to Facebook. Use a secure app. If you haven’t met his friends before, just know that the first time you meet them might not be the first time they’ve seen parts of you that you don’t want to be seen. You don’t know them or their motivations and you need to protect yourself. Most important of all, know that you don’t owe anyone anything. I know it seems silly to add this but it’s still worth saying. Never feel like you have to send someone nudes. «If they say no or sound unsure, respect their boundaries.

Nudes are incredibly popular in today’s dating scene for sure. You don’t have to be in it! If you just bought an adorable matching bra and thong set, why not show it off to him? Send him pictures of your lingerie. Think carefully before you take action. Try sexting him. Words are sometimes more powerful than images anyway. He won’t need to stare at an image of you when you’re right in front of him. However, it’s up to you if you want to send them or not. Link him to some other sexy stuff. You can pull a sultry pose or just make sure you’re looking ultra sexy but you don’t need to disrobe. Whether that’s an adult video, some pictures you saw on Instagram that got you going, or an erotic story that makes you hot. If he’s into you, he’ll want to see you regardless of what you’re wearing. Do what’s right for you. Why does he need a picture when he can just come over and see it in person? What seems like a good idea now might turn into a nightmare if you’re not careful. It will encourage him to use his imagination as well, which is always a good thing. If you’re not wanting to send him nudes, there’s always the option of linking him to some other sexy stuff you’ve seen online. Invite him over instead. If it’s not possible for him to come over right away, make plans to see each other as soon as possible. That will give you both something to look forward to and keep the anticipation high. If you don’t want to send him nudes but you’re comfortable typing out some of the things you’d like to do to him, sexting can get you both going even more than the pictures would.